Shilo | The Original Pack and Play

Our bestseller Shilo features a posable core and a slightly pronounced head for precise G and P spot pleasure. Designed and handmade with care, Shilo is beautiful enough to be displayed on your night stand and durable for a lifetime of use. Can be worn discreetly as a packer or used as a strap on dildo for partner play.

Materials:
100% body safe dual density silicone.

Dimensions:
Shilo has an insertable length of 6.25 inches in the shaft. It’s girth measures 1.5 inches wide, and it has a 3 inch wide base measured at the widest circumference.

Product Care:
To ensure the longevity and optimal performance of your silicone toy, it’s important to follow these care instructions. After each use, gently wash the toy with warm water and mild soap, ensuring to thoroughly rinse away any residue. You can also use a toy cleaner specifically designed for silicone products. Allow the toy to air dry completely before storing. Additionally, use a water-based lubricant to enhance your experience and to prevent any potential damage to the silicone material.

What is Shilo and why is it considered an icon?

Shilo is New York Toy Collective’s signature product and best seller since 2012 — the original bendable, posable silicone strap-on.

It was featured in Ruby Rose’s short film Break Free and reviewed by Autostraddle as one of the best.

Over 14 years later, it’s still the one people come back to.

Handmade in small batches with dual-density silicone and a proprietary posable core, Shilo is designed to be worn under clothing so you’re ready when the moment comes — no stopping, no interruptions.

What makes Shilo different from other strap-ons?

Most strap-ons are rigid and mass-produced.

Shilo is handmade in small batches using dual-density silicone with a proprietary posable core — meaning it bends, holds its position, and moves naturally with your body.

It’s designed to be worn before anything starts, so you don’t have to stop or reset the moment.

How do you use Shilo?

Shilo is worn with a harness.

Put it on as you get dressed — position it how you want, secure it in your harness, and wear it under clothing.

When the moment comes, you’re already ready.

No stopping, no adjusting, no interruption.

Can Shilo be worn under clothing?

Yes — Shilo is designed to be worn discreetly under clothing.

We recommend wearing it when you know you’re going to use it. If you’re looking for something to wear all day, a packer may be a better fit.

Shilo is made for play — worn in, ready when it matters.

Is Shilo harness compatible?

Yes — Shilo works with any standard O-ring harness (1.5–2" openings).

It’s also available with compatible harness options, including the Arden Leather Harness, Explorer Harness, and the Joque Harness by SpareParts.

What is a bendable or posable strap-on?

A bendable, posable strap-on is designed to move and hold its position.

Shilo features a proprietary internal core that allows it to stay exactly where you set it while moving naturally with your body.

What is dual-density silicone and why does it matter?

Dual-density silicone combines a firm inner core with a softer outer layer.

Shilo is structured to provide both stability and a more realistic feel.

What is a realistic strap-on made of?

A realistic strap-on is typically made from body-safe silicone.

Shilo uses dual-density silicone to create a more natural look and feel while maintaining durability.

Can you wear a strap-on under clothes?

Some strap-ons can be worn under clothing.

Shilo is specifically designed to be worn discreetly with a harness so it stays in place and is ready when needed.

What is the best strap-on for lesbians?

The best strap-on depends on comfort, realism, and ease of use.

Shilo is a popular choice because it is bendable, posable, and designed to be worn before use — eliminating interruptions.

Is Shilo body-safe?

Yes — Shilo is made from 100% body-safe silicone.

It is non-porous, phthalate-free, and hypoallergenic.

What lubricant should I use with Shilo?

Use water-based lubricant.

Silicone-based lubricants can degrade silicone over time. If using silicone-based lube, use a condom.

Can Shilo be used for anal play?

Yes.

For anal use, we recommend using a condom and silicone-based lubricant for added comfort.

Can Shilo be shared with a partner?

Yes — silicone is non-porous and can be fully sanitized.

Use a condom or wash thoroughly with warm, soapy water between uses.

What colors does Shilo come in?

Shilo is available in Cashew, Caramel, Hazelnut, Chocolate, Midnight Purple, and Blue & Black — designed to reflect a range of skin tones and personal expression.

What’s the difference between Shilo and Carter?

Shilo and Carter share the same construction — handmade dual-density silicone, a proprietary posable core, and full harness compatibility.

Carter offers more girth.

Same design, more presence.

Care & Maintenance

Cleaning:

Wash with warm water and mild soap after each use. Rinse thoroughly and air dry.

Lubricant:

Use water-based lubricant. For silicone-based lube, use a condom.

Storage:

Store separately from other silicone products, away from heat and direct sunlight.

Water Use:

Safe for bath or shower use. Clean and dry thoroughly after.