Shilo | The Original Pack and Play
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14 Years. Still the One.
As worn by Ruby Rose in Break Free — over 55 million views. The moment everyone goes back to at 3:33. New York Toy Collective pioneered the posable, bendable silicone strap-on dildo and never looked back. 429 reviews. Still the one people come back to.
Want the Full Setup?
Shilo pairs perfectly with our handcrafted leather harness or the Joque — available as a complete kit and priced better than buying separately. Shop the Shilo Kit →
Product Details
- Posable & bendable — holds exactly how you set it, moves with your body
- Harness compatible — fits any standard O-ring harness
- Handmade body-safe dual-density silicone — small batch, never mass-produced
- Insertable length: 6.25" | Girth: 1.5" | Base: 3"
- Includes removable suction cup
- Available in 5 colors: Cashew, Caramel, Hazelnut, Chocolate, Midnight Purple
Already Have a Harness?
Shilo works with any strap harness, but it was really built for ours. Pair it with the Joque or our handcrafted leather strap-on harness for a strap dildo setup that stays put and moves the way you do — or grab the Shilo + Leather Harness Kit or the Shilo + Joque Kit and save vs. buying separately.
Questions We Hear
What is a pack-and-play dildo?
A pack-and-play is a dildo you can wear discreetly and use for play — no swapping gear, no breaking the mood. Shilo invented the category: posable silicone that holds whatever position you set, so you're ready when the moment is. Here's everything to know about pack-and-play.
Why was Shilo created?
Because it didn't exist. Back when the iPad 2 had just come out, our founder remembers thinking: they can put cameras on both sides of a touchscreen, but there's still no skin-tone posable toy I can wear in my pants on the train. Shilo was the answer — a labor of love, and the first posable silicone toy of its kind.
Can you wear Shilo as an everyday packer?
No — Shilo is designed to be worn when it's going to be used. It's for intimacy, pleasure, and affirmation: wear it out when the night is going somewhere. For all-day everyday packing, a dedicated packer like Archer or Jack is the right tool.
How does the posable core work?
Shilo is built in three layers: a soft silicone exterior, a firm inner silicone layer, and a proprietary posable core at the center. Bend it down to wear, position it up to play — it holds exactly how you set it and moves with your body instead of fighting it.
Is Shilo harness-compatible, and what O-ring fits?
Yes — Shilo fits any standard O-ring harness. Its base is 3", so standard rings hold it securely. If you'd rather not think about fit at all, the Shilo Strap-On Set pairs it with a matched harness out of the box.
What size is Shilo?
Insertable length 6.25", girth 1.5", base 3". Middle-of-the-road proportions on purpose — enough presence to feel real, not so much that it's a project.
Is Shilo body-safe silicone?
Yes. Shilo is handmade in small batches from body-safe dual-density silicone — a firmer core with a softer exterior. No mystery blends, no mass production. Here's why dual-density feels different.
What lube should I use with Shilo?
Water-based lube. Silicone-based lube can degrade silicone toys over time, so keep it water-based and reapply as needed. Here's our lube guide.
How do I clean and store Shilo?
Warm water and mild soap after each use, air dry fully, and store it out of direct sunlight — no special case needed. Full care details in our silicone cleaning guide.
What's the difference between Shilo and Carter?
Girth, mostly. Shilo is the original all-arounder at 1.5" girth; Carter is the thicker dual-density option for people who want more — see the Carter kit. Same posable design, same silicone, different presence.
Will Shilo show under fitted clothing?
Honestly — it's fuller than an everyday packer, so fitted clothing will show some profile even bent down. Looser fits handle it easily. If a subtle everyday bulge is the goal, that's packer territory, not pack-and-play.
Shipping is always discreet. Items are shipped in polybags or blank brown or white cardboard boxes. We ship internationally to many countries, with duties and import taxes included at checkout (DDP). Enter your address at checkout to confirm availability and cost to your location — note that international orders are final sale and can't be returned.
Because our products are intimate, most items are final sale for hygiene reasons. A limited selection of unopened, non-intimate items may be returned for store credit within 7 days — see our return policy. Damaged or defective? Contact us within 24 hours and we'll make it right.
