Ignite your Sex Life Series – Setting the Scene
- Set a Time for your Sex Date
- Clear your Schedule (Remember to give yourself time for warm-up and aftercare)
- Arrange Babysitters/Petsitters
- Clean the Room of Clutter
- Change the Sheets (or clean whatever surface you plan to dirty)
- Clean and Gather Your Sex Supplies (dildos, strap-on harness, anal plugs, lube, blindfolds, etc…) and put them within reach
- Or Prepare a Sex Toy Go Bag
- If you can, it might be worth it to splurge on a hotel room
- Get the Dogs and Cats Sleeping in their own Beds!!!
- Find a Dog Bed or a Cat Tree (Budget tip: give them anything they like to lay on anyway like an old couch pillow or towel)
- Short Term Solution: kick them out of the room & give them a special treat or toy to keep them busy
- Lower the Lights (lamps with dimmer switches, or keeping a lamp covering scarf handy are great alternatives to candles)
- Set aside some sex fuel for as long as you have planned
- Water, seltzer/juice spritzers, wine or champagne are all great options
- Fruit or other light snacks
- Gather Fan, AC or space heater to maintain a comfortable temperature, considering how much clothing you will be wearing, and how active you plan to be
- Consider audible distractions
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- If music isn’t your thing, get a white noise machine or use a fan outside the door
Hope this helps get the juices flowing!
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