The Best FTM Sex Toys Part 1: Trans, Queer and LGBTQ+ Sex Toys designed for you

Behold, an affirming guide for trans, nonbinary, queer and AFAB cuties looking to get it on, and get off!

Facts: finding sex toys that are actually innovative and exciting can feel overwhelming. Finding sex toys that work for queer sex can feel like an uphill battle. But you’re in the right place.

New York Toy Collective was started because there just weren’t enough products for us. Welcome, New York Toy Collective products, aren’t toys that were “accidentally inclusive” – they were built from scratch by us, for us. Everything we’re going to get into is designed for queer sex and will work on bodies with or without HRT.

We’ve broken down the best sex toys for FTM, trans and queer sex into two sections:

Solo Play and Partner Play.

SOLO PLAY TOYS

1.Trans Strokers: Strokers are soft, textured sleeves designed to go over your most sensitive parts – your growth, your bits, your bulge, your most sensitive spot. Jack is our signature representational ribbed silicone stroker designed for pleasure.

BONUS TIP: Place a bullet vibe inside Jack for even more sensation 🙂

2.Trans Masc Pumps: For years, trans-masc pumps have been one of our most beloved products for a reason. The physical sensation, the visual sensation, the ritual—all of it. Pumping increases blood flow and skin elasticity. Using any one of our three trans masc pumps will immediately increase the size of your anatomy, making it easier to use Jack the stroker.
Unlike other pumps that are nipple pumps in a new box, our Transmasc pump is designed to work specifically on AFAB anatomy. We’ve created a custom mold made for consistent comfort. When pumping, make sure to use water-based lube to reduce friction. We suggest our limited-ingredient lube Fulx

Of course every body is different and there isn’t a one size fits all but we got you- just pump it up.

If you are more of a visual learner or just looking for a good time, you can see the pumps in action on our Free OnlyFans Page.
We offer three models of our F2M Pumps:

PRO TIP– Pumping will be most successful when you are aroused so set the mood, and start with lube and some manual stimulation or a vibe to get your body warmed up.

I didn’t expect pumping to feel sexy… but it became part of my pleasure routine – a way to feel
grounded, turned on, and present in my body.”

3. Let’s talk vibes. We’ve got two go-to’s that pair beautifully with trans and AFAB anatomy – both solo and with a
partner. The Wonder Wand is glittery, shiny, and cute, just like your wand. Full-size wands are great because they are easy to find, aka hard to lose, and you can use them in so many positions. You can lay on it using your body weight to control the pressure, lay back, or put it in between you and your partner for an orgasmic sandwich.

The mighty but powerful bullet vibe. Everyone, yes, everyone needs one of these. Small, quiet, discrete, and waterproof. They’re travel-friendly and easy to use anywhere on the body (think outside the box, pun intended). They even come with a travel lock, so they don’t buzz unexpectedly in your bag.

  1. Packer Vibes: Vibe + Affirmation = Magic
    Some people find that looking down and seeing a cock between their legs is the ultimate in gender euphoria.

Pairing a soft packer with a bullet vibe underneath it… A+ or of course Jack and yes the cavity can fit a vibe.

PARTNER PLAY TOYS

  1. Strap-On Play: The visual sensation of watching someone enjoy your cock is like no other, if you know…you know.

But not all dildos are created equal. Shilo was designed specifically to be warn under clothing (supported by the joque harness LINK). Shilo is posable to your experience can begin with a blowjob and then when you are ready, angle it for penetrative sex. The visual stimulation… the physical sensation- there is a reason why Shilo(LINK) has been our best selling dildo for over a decade.
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Meet Shilo: Our signature pack-and-play dildo

  • Designed to be worn discreetly in your pants (yes, all day if you want)
  • Curved head for G-spot & P-spot stimulation
  • Made from body-safe silicone
  • Perfect for blowjobs, grinding, pegging, and penetration
    Shilo is affirming, sexy, and smooth and a good fucking time.
There’s nothing more euphoric than having your partner reach down, feel your cock, and smile like
they’ve been waiting for it all night.”
  1. The Joque Harness by Spare Parts : Discrete + Maximum Control. This harness delivers the most control and stability of any harness on the market. While some folks like boxers with a hole for a dildo, the Joque harness is on another level; we’re talking the difference between driving a Honda and an Audi – they are both great, but there is an undeniable difference. Words can’t really do it justice but after a test drive and you’ll understand.

This is a jockstrap-style harness made for control, stability, endurance and comfort, and it delivers.

You can wear it under your boxer shorts- you can stay ready. You can even slip it through the hole in your underwear for a Blowjob for a lovely visual. With the Joque harness you are always ready. There is something beautiful about wearing it out on a date and seeing your partners excitement when they know what is cuming.

All of our toys are designed for gender affirming queer sex, we’re here to fulfill desires, fantasies and ever hole. Until next time…